Something to think about . . .

As I ponder through my mind the things that I see ladies engaging themselvels in, I think about how many of us are confused and focused on the things that will not foster the successes that we so naturally deserve.

Oftentimes, women think that we can do anything that we want without getting hurt, feeling pain, and/or experiencing any type of embarrassement. Because I am a sincere advocate for women, I am here to say that this notion is simply untrue. What I do know is that a woman CANNOT do what a man does and still be considered a lady!

Ladies possess manners, care about how others view them, care about themselves, are considerate, and always seek opportunities to be better tomorrow than what they are today. Ladies admire the successes of other women, support them and lift them up whenever necessary.

The ladies of this world are the backbones of this world. Find your niche and give back to a society that can be changed for the better. Everyone has something to offer; get involved and give more than what you take away. You will love yourself for it. Have an amazing day . . . on purpose!

Smooches!

Special people will push you to your purpose

I am that one person that believes that life is busy. Sometimes busier than what we ever intended for our life to be. But what is definitely appreciated is having that special somebody in your life that believes in what you belive in, understands your mission, and believes in your purpose. The hustle and bustle of life can and will make you second guess yourself and your bottom line but having that special someone in your corner cheering you along and reminding you that your works are what are needed to ensure a successful outcome is what will assist in propelling you into your "true" future.

Now that special someone can be your mate but don't underestimate the cheerleader in your co-worker, your pastor, your family members, your fraternity brother and/or sorority sister, or any one who belives in who you are and values you for what you bring to the table. Don't push someone away when they are there to push you to be what you are destined to be.

I am the biggest cheerleader for Team Tammy but I also have special people who are on my sideline that can get behind and push me toward my destiny, get beside me and walk it out with me, and open a door for me that I thought was once closed to me. I am thankful to have people on Team Tammy that believe in Tammy. I am happy to have people on my team that understand the process and do what they can to make the process a little less stressful for me.

Want success? Find your purpose and work that thing! You are more than what people think you are!

Smooches . . .

Life is busy and oftentimes we find ourselves in our own world and rarely come outside of ourselves to see and understand what others may be experiencing. We sometimes take life too seriously and oftentimes, we stay within our own circle without venturing out to see what truly awaits us. While it's good and I recommend that we all have our circle of friends who we can bounce ideas off of when needed, I also encourage all whom I encounter to step outside of their box. Hell, remove the box completely and start living. Learn to appreciate diversity. Learn to not always be the leader for a true leader is one who knows when to be a follower as well.

So today is the first day of my blog, the first day where I will communicate with folk about things ranging from politics, sex and relationships, events, fashion, gossip (hehehe) and any other topic that seems to garner the attention of the masses. Through this blog, my desire is to reach people who have an interest in broadening their horizon about all things in this thing called life. I desire to connect with those whom I may never have an opportunity to engage with and I seek to have a dialogue that is useful to all who read my thoughts. Lastly, I desire to meet new friends and reconnect with those that I have lost touch with along the way - remember what I said earlier, life is busy.

So again, today is my first day as a blogger so look out world . . . the words of Tammy are genuine and sometimes comical, but they are words that will hopefully encourage all who reads them to begin to challenge themselves and their own thought process. I will use my blog to enlighten some and educate others. Prepare yourself for words of encouragement - let's prepare ourselves to be better people. 

Smooches . . .